Whenever you lead people, those people will inspire you with their dedication. They will also frustrate you with their failures. Both of these realities are part of the human experience. 

Jesus must have been elated and frustrated with His disciples, sometimes in the same day. Sometimes they messed up so bad it was unbelievable.

In that moment, the leader has a choice. 

When someone you are leading frustrates you, you have two choices: remove them from the problem or coach them into solving the problem.

The former is what would feel good, even right in the moment. The latter is the selfless, Christ like choice that takes the long-view.

Help your people get better, and in the end everyone wins. Coach them, and they will rise to the next level. Hopefully, someone is doing the same for you.